Friday, March 20, 2009

MMMMMORE


At long last Paul Thomas has one truly distinguishable word for at least most ears down. Today at breakfast it was wonderful to watch him practice and then master (at least for that moment) the word "more". This is a very important word to him as it was the only word he signed and it meant "I want something, hurry up and figure it out!" I am so happy to be moving into toddler language and away from grunts and whines. He had developed a special talent of driving me crazy with a whiny uhhhhh. This probably doesn't deserve a post in most people's book, but for me I am elated and wanted to share my joy. Now I don't have to answer the questions of why he isn't talking and if he is developmentally "okay" or if he is deaf.

Yeah for more! We are getting there!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

The Laundry Shoot

We (Mom, myself and the two boys) recently visited Nana and Grandpa in St. Louis. Nana and Grandpa's house has many delightful treasures. The most wonderful of them all has been and will always be the Laundry Shoot. Oh, the genius of making a hole in the wall go from the upstairs to the echoing basement. Paul Thomas was so amazed by it that as you can tell he is sending his beloved blankie down.


Is it safe?

Yup, it made it okay.

If you are wondering why he doesn't have any clothes on, well those went down right before his blanket and here he is taking the sheets off Mommy's bed. We could barely get all the clothes gathered in time for him. If fact this morning I got out of the shower to find that all the clothes, including the ones I had intended to wear for the day, had taken a 2 story ride.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Growing

We went to the Birth center today for Mommy's check up. I got to see all the wonderful women who help make my birth so special. They all commented on how healthy I looked. In just 7 weeks I have gained 4 1/2 lbs and now weigh
12 lbs 2 oz!

PT has nothing on me!

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Lent and "The Economy"

For those of us who need practical motivation for earnestly participating in this liturgical and penitential season of Lent, I offer this small reflection.

Hopefully, most people know what are the Pillars of Lent (anyone, anyone, Bueler?). They are prayer, fasting and amlsgiving. Now, I am aware that my ideas can sometimes be a bit...underwhelming, but this always struck me as a strange thing to say as I grew and tried to figure out in my own mind the significance of our precious faith. I knew that prayer was supposed to be something we did with great frequency, that we had to fast at least 1 hour before attending Mass, and that a ten percent tithe was all but expected of faithful Catholics. So I asked myself, although without so much clarity, "Why are these "normal" things the Pillars of Lent? Should not this season be full of extraordinary, monumental, heroic actions and liturgical functions? Why don't we fast for 40 entire days, as Christ did in the desert, or make some ritual, bloody sacrifice for atonement, as is required in the Jewish Law?"

Upon hearing one particularly erudite homily, it became clear to me that this is exactly the point. While it is true that Lent is a time for evaluation, penance and re-commitment, it is also meant to be a liturgical microcosm of the normality of trials and suffering in our lives. The Church, the Body of Christ, in her wisdom, wants to show that every little "down" that we encounter is an opportunity for growth in virtue and holiness. The life of the Church is not unconnected with our lives in the world; indeed, they are one and the same! And so, Lent is offered to us as a reminder that difficulties and obstacles (such as a 40% drop in stock market values) should be expected, in the sense that we should be prepared to embrace them as opportunities for spiritual profit. For, in the end, retirement is only temporary, while that bliss and final rest, for which Lent helps to ready us, is unending.

Can you say football player?


The other morning I found my self tell Paul Thomas, "That's why we don't pick up the couch...it can fall and hit our head. Furniture stays on the ground. Okay PT?"

Afterwards I thought that sounds absolutely ridiculous and yet here I was having to address that indeed we don't pick up furniture in our household.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Looking good is painful



Let me tell you a story...


it's about a thing they call a "Haircut"!


Snuggle in Avery, it can get a bit hairy.


If you're big like Peter...


you can put on a brave face.


Oh Luci, you have no idea what it was like.


I really did try to be brave.


But look at those scissors.



Finally it's over, hold me tight!


Oh no! Now it's your turn Daniel. First the spray bottle.


Then the comb.


I'm not sure it was worth the results either.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Why transition is good.



What a new little one brings... 


a new bed,


new bath time,



new smiles,



a new hand to hold,


new kisses,


(PT style)


new hugs


new love,



and a new friend for life.


I love you, Avery.